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What to Do If Your Dog Doesn’t Want To Share His Toys

What to Do If Your Dog Doesn’t Want To Share His Toys

Most dogs love their toys, but sometimes they love them just a little too much. Toy guarding and hoarding behaviors are very common. So, what can you do about it?

It’s normal for dogs to hide their toys or bones as if they’re saving them for later, and it’s even normal in dogs who have an abundance of toys available to them at all times. If you would like these behaviors to stop, however, try limiting the amount of toys and bones your dog has access to at a given time.

If your dog is resource guarding toys (growling, snapping or biting if you try to take them away), this is a different matter altogether. Resource guarding, whether it involves food, toys or even a human, is rooted in a dog’s instinctual need for safety and survival. In the mind of a resource-guarding dog, the people or other dogs in the household represent a threat, causing the dog to guard objects to keep himself safe and comfortable.

Unfortunately, there’s a myth that resource guarding is the result of a dog trying to exert dominance. As a result, well-meaning pet owners believe they need to be confrontational with their resource guarding dogs in order to gain “control” over them and force them into submission. A confrontational approach only serves to validate the dog’s insecurity and can get people snapped at or bitten.

How to fix the problem

A great way to prevent toy aggression from ever developing, or to help improve the problem once it has already started, is to remove confrontation from the equation and make dropping toys a fun and stress-free game instead.

Teach your dog to “take it” by rewarding him for picking up a toy, then providing him with a trade, presenting another toy from behind your back and directing his interest onto the new toy while you play with it. When your dog drops the original toy, immediately praise and reward with the second toy, eventually adding the words “drop it.”

The key is to make that second toy infinitely more interesting than the first. Soon you will be seen as the giver of exciting new toys, rather than the person who comes to take away valued objects.

Resource guarding is a difficult behavior to cope with, especially if you have young children or live in a multi-dog household, but focus on what you want from your dog, rather than correcting for the behaviors you do not want. You’ll find that your dog is eager to learn, and will trust you to provide him with a safe, low-stress environment where he does not feel the need to guard or protect things of value.